Killing Malmon

 

In the last month, I read “Killing Malmon” featuring 30 Authors…One Victim. The book is edited by Dan and Kate Malmon and benefits MS. This was my bedtime story book, and I enjoyed reading the short stories on how to kill Dan. I’m sure Kate was fascinated too –  she’s Dan’s wife!

Killing Malmon

Killing Malmon

Kate has MS and this is their way of helping the MS Society by donating the royalties earned from their book to the cause. The stories are pretty creative and it’s amazing how many different ways you can kill one person! There’s a mix of humor, drama, jealousy, and total crime. If you have a chance, check out the book. Great stories and a great cause!

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Lessons Learned: Weather

In a matter of two days – I went from tropical…

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To a winter storm…

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I think I like tropical better.

Beth M James – Novels based on strong characters and elements of romance.  http://www.bethmjames.com

Lessons Learned: To Do List

Yesterday I had a lot that I wanted to get done. I really wanted to work on my book edits, but I also knew that I had quite a few writing and household tasks that had (or I wanted) to do as well. And when I get overloaded, bringing on superwoman and do everything in a single day, I end up being less productive. I do the famous start one thing and then move on to the next without finishing the first.

Yesterday I decided to create a list to make sure that I gave myself time to edit and do other tasks. I know this sounds nerdy, but my list started like this:

  1. Edit 1-2 pages
  2. Get ready for the day
  3. Menu plan
  4. Edit 1-2 pages
  5. Eat breakfast
  6. Start laundry
  7. Edit 1-2 pages
  8. Sort out bills, pay charge cards
  9. Record pile of receipts into the check register
  10. Edit 1-2 pages
  11. Bank reconciliation for both banks
  12. Edit 1-2 pages

This is only the beginning. The above took me through the morning. What was nice about the list is that I didn’t have to think about what I should do next. I just followed it line by line. However, I do like this one as well:

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I didn’t get through all my tasks yesterday, but I’m now working on it again tonight. I filed papers, waited for my computer to update (grrr), went through emails, and wrote blog. Now that I’m done with the blog, guess what I get to do next! Yep, edit one to two pages.

Have a great week!

Beth M James

Novels based on strong characters and elements of romance.

http://www.bethmjames.com

Lessons Learned: To Be Inspired

At work, I overheard a project manager say to a developer, “You’ve inspired me today.” I heard this a few weeks ago, and it’s still stuck with me. The project manager said the comment after the IT developer gave her hope on one of the troublesome projects she’s managing.

For me, the word inspire offers a different perspective than simply stating to encourage or to motivate. I think of inspire as getting a breath of fresh air, of new hope, and of thanks for changing my outlook. I believe the project manager meant it that way too. I wasn’t involved in the conversation but just hearing the comment had made my day. I loved the word choice because it stood out from the norm. I’ll have to remember to use the word as well when I truly want someone to know how they’ve made me feel. Here’s to being inspired…

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Beth M James

Novels based on strong characters and elements of romance.

http://www.bethmjames.com

Lessons Learned: Acceptance

Acceptance is important for good and bad situations – whether it’s indirect or not. By accepting whatever it is, you can then assess the situation and determine how to move forward. You would think that this is easy to do but for some it’s not. They’ll scramble, make up excuses, get angry, and maybe make bad choices.

For good situations, I know people who will immediately brush off the situation. Whether it’s a good event, an award, a compliment, or another person’s accomplishment. I had a situation about seven years ago when I won an award for Employee of the Year. I couldn’t believe that I had won the award. There were others who deserved the award. When I went up to accept the plaque, I thanked everyone. No speech. A few people were disappointed because I didn’t elaborate, but the director stated that I didn’t have to make a speech. Of course, in hindsight, I wish I would have said a few words. If I would’ve accepted that I had won, I would have been thinking about my speech as I walked up to the podium instead of wondering why me.

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For bad situations, accepting what happened will help keep your emotions in order. It means that you know you can’t change the event, which then helps you focus on what needs to happen next. For example, if you’re late for work due to traffic, there’s not much you can do when your idling along with the other cars. If you accept that your stuck, you can think of what needs to occur next (what second route you can take or turning up the tunes to enjoy the music) instead of being angry at the people in the car or cars in front you when they can’t do much either. You don’t need to make a bad situation worse.

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Beth M James

http://www.bethmjames.com     Novels based on strong characters and elements of romance. 

Lessons Learned: Decorating Cookies

One of my favorite traditions throughout the Christmas seasons has been decorating Christmas cookies. My mom would have us kids and then our kids over each year to make the cut outs of Santas, reindeers, angels, snowflakes, Christmas trees, and wreaths. After the cookies baked and cooled, we would then ice the cookies before decorating with red and green sprinkles, chocolate chips (a must have), red and green frosting, and cinnamon hots. We always ate too many cookies, and we would leave with slightly upset stomachs. But it didn’t matter. We had that time together.

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After my mom had her stroke and my dad passed away, there were a couple of years when we didn’t decorate cookies. Time was lost as we reorganized the holiday season into new traditions. It wasn’t until my daughter insisted that we decorate cookies that I knew we had to keep this tradition going. The time together wasn’t about eating the cookies as much as spending time as family.

This year, we decorated cookies at my daughter’s house. Even my son-in-law joined in to help decorate with pink and blue frosting, baby bottle sprinkles, chocolate chips, red sprinkles, and cinnamon hots. Yes, there was a little mix up on what was bought for decorations, but it didn’t matter. We still had fun and enjoyed this time together. And luckily, we were able to eat a few of those cookies before my grandson, sick with a cold, sneezed over the entire plate of finished cookies.

 

Beth M James

Novels based on strong characters and elements of romance.

http://www.bethmjames.com

 

Lessons Learned: Getting Refreshed

Image result for free thanksgiving clip artI hope everyone enjoyed their long Thanksgiving weekend. My husband and I hosted dinner on Thanksgiving Day, having family join us for a great afternoon and evening. I then had three full days to tackle my writing goals and knock off some items on my chore list. For the first time in ages, I did not leave my house for the entire four-day weekend. I can’t even remember the last time that happened.

I had an amazing time battling the Morlorns as I worked on the draft to my next book, the third in the “Dream or Reality” series for “The Calling.” While most of you were shopping on Black Friday or on the weekend, I decided to hibernate inside my happy little home. Not only did I write, but I also put up the Christmas decorations, paid bills, cleaned, and spent time with Mike.

Now that I’m refreshed, I’m ready to start the week feeling better about myself, my accomplishments, and happy to get through that battle near the stone dwelling. My characters never get a holiday, but this year I did. I’m ready to rejoin society and take on the outside world once again.

Beth M James

Novels based on strong characters and elements of romance.

http://www.bethmjames.com